After a breakup, the hurt and feeling of rejection can make you feel as if he does not want you anymore. This has come as quite a shock to you, since you felt everything was fine right up to the time he said he wanted to end the relationship. Now you cannot see how you can face the future without him. It is understandable why you should feel like that, but it does not have to be that way. Here are proven steps to make your ex boyfriend love you again.
The first step is to resist the urge to get him to talk to you so you can show him what a mistake he is making. If you have any contact with him at this time, he will reject and hurt you again. When he broke up with you, he wanted to be left alone, and he will not change overnight. What caused him to want the split, could have been eating on him for quite a while and he will not get over it quickly. So you have to give him time and space to sort things out.
That does not mean that you are just going to give up on him and not try to get him back, but you will have to give him up for now. This is the time for patience and understanding. Right now you are feeling he does not want you and that puts him in control. If you do not go chasing him and let him know how hurt you are, you can gain control and get your ex back.
That might seem like a hard thing to do, but it will be necessary if you want your future with him back. To start gaining control, you have to make your ex think you do not want him anymore. That will all begin by appearing to be accepting the breakup and moving on without him. You cannot have any contact with him whatsoever. If you can have the strength and determination to ignore him for a few weeks, you will set him up to feel rejected and alone.
Have patience and the time will come to turn things to your favor. To do that you just have to make your ex boyfriend have the same feelings you had when he made you feel he did not want you anymore. Use some male psychology and he will be wanting your love more than ever before. All you will have to do is make him think he cannot have you anymore.
Get dressed to the nines, so you look desirable and gorgeous and go out hunting your ex boyfriend. He should not be hard to find, since you know his habits and where he hangs out. When you bump into him. put on a big smile and act as if you have just met an old friend. Then tell him that you are glad things worked out as they did and you now realize the breakup was best for both of you. Then give him a hug and be on your way. You will have just made your ex experience the rejection you have been feeling and that will make him have to get you back
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